New Jersey Alimony Rights for Men

Since every situation is unique and different, you should know there are a number of factors the courts use to determine what you will pay and for how long. In new Jersey there are thirteen factors that courts use in determining the alimony amount and how long you will pay. These factors include the length of the marriage, as well as your age, your spouse’s age, and each of your levels of physical health.

Yes, if the financial and lifestyle circumstances allow, either spouse can be awarded alimony.

Sometimes alimony is short-term, lasting only through the divorce, and sometimes it can be very long-term. There are certain factors that will always end alimony, so it isn’t necessarily permanent.

Alimony is calculated based on the income and earning potential of both spouses in addition to other lifestyle factors. It is different for every couple.

If you may be paying or receiving alimony, it can be more beneficial to focus on estimating your own alimony. A family law attorney can help you with your estimates.

Alimony will end when the paying party retires, when there is a drastic change in the financial circumstances of a party, or when one spouse is cohabitating with someone new.

Alimony does stop when one spouse is cohabitating with someone new, but the definition of cohabitation is subjective and determined by shared finances, length of relationship, and other factors.

Based on his work as a litigator, Brad has earned numerous successful results, including successfully arguing the lead case in New Jersey divorce law defining the laws concerning limited duration alimony and its modification. In addition to his litigation and negotiation experience, Brad also has extensive training and experience in the alternative dispute resolution (ADR) processes. After serving as a mediator for the Attorney General’s Office in Delaware, he received certification as a mediator through the Superior Court of New Jersey. He later received an invitation to serve as a commercial arbitrator from the Assignment Judge, Union County, New Jersey.

• Type of Client: Man in a short-term marriage with no children and no joint assets or debts. He believed it would be amicable.
• Client’s Issue: Having to pay alimony indefinitely.
• Our Approach: We told him not to hire us initially because his legal fee costs would outweigh any benefit we would be able to offer. Instead, we advised him to file the papers on his own. We gave him instructions on where to find the forms, reviewed them for him and advised him to file and serve them himself. We then counseled him on what simple terms to place into a settlement agreement that he could take to his wife.
• Result: He was able to file, settle, and get divorced within about 6 months and did not have to incur any legal fees.

• Type of Client: Middle-age man, main breadwinner in long-term marriage with significant alimony concerns.
• Client’s Issue: Fear of the amount and duration of alimony.
• Our Approach: First, we sat down and discussed the general parameters of his alimony exposure and the tax consequences and potential adjustments to his with holdings to allow a larger net paycheck. Then, we ran an analysis of the current bills and expenses for which he would no longer be responsible, such as housing, medical insurance, car payment, and entertainment, so he could compare his marital expenses to his new, lower, projected personal expenses. Next, we interviewed employability experts to gauge the potential level of employability for his wife.
• Result:  We were able to utilize the information obtained from the various experts we interviewed to come to an agreement with his wife as to her imputed income. Doing so eliminated the potentially significant cost of the expert and the litigation that would follow, and settled the matter.

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